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Protecting The Identity Of Those Who Have Passed
How to completely and thoroughly protect the identity of a deceased family member.

Even when a loved one has passed their identity can still live on, which is why it's important to protect it.

Protecting the identity of a family member who has passed is one of the most overlooked tasks after all is said and done. On the contrary, obtaining the ID of the deceased is one of the more clever ways a thief can use it to harm you and your familyís good name. Here are five steps to take after a loved-one has passed away to make sure that their identity rests in peace:

1. Short obituaries. Make sure that you donít include too much identifying information when you write the obituary. Identity thieves use this information (motherís maiden name, address, ancestry, occupation, birth date, death date) to set up new accounts, licenses, etc. in the deceased personís name. It is important to honor the person, just donít give away all of their personal information.

2. Protect death certificates. Guard the death certificate like you would a birth certificate or other piece of identity. You will need to fax this document to certain organizations in order to prove that your family member is deceased, but only send it to trusted institutions who absolutely wonít take the name off of the account without it. When you are done with the death certificate, store the original and all copies in your safe where you keep other identity documents. Be forewarned that for securities sake, many organizations are requiring an original copy of the death certificate as proof, so ask for 10-12 originals copies when you request the death certificate.

3. Notify credit bureaus. Immediately notify the three credit reporting bureaus that your family member has passed away. Request that the credit report is flagged with the note, "Deceased, Do Not Issue Credit." Request a copy of the decedentís credit report so that you will have a list of all of the accounts you need to modify/close (see Step 4). The procedure varies by credit bureaus so contact each of them. The numbers to contact them are as follows: Experian (888) 397-3742; Equifax (888) 766-0008; and TransUnion (800) 680-7289. Donít wait for the Social Security Administration to notify the credit bureausóit takes them too longóand make sure to log all correspondence and conversations and send documents via certified mail so that you have proof of delivery should you ever need to dispute a claim of non-receipt.

4. Notify financial institutions. Notify all banks, insurance companies, credit card companies, stock brokers, mortgage companies, loan/lien holders, etc. about the death of your family member (if it was a joint account or an account under their name). The executor or surviving spouse will need to resolve all outstanding debts and how they will be dealt with before the account can be closed or the deceased personís name is removed from the account. Also notify the Social Security Administration, Veteranís Administration, Department of Motor Vehicles, professional license associations (Bar Association), membership programs (Costco, Samís, Blockbuster, etc.) and any creditors or collection agencies with which the deceased had an account or membership. This is a difficult time to put in all of the work to protect an identity that should be left alone, but the current reality is that the identities of deceased individuals are easier to steal and abuse than those of the living.

5. Share wisely with family members. Unfortunately, many cases of deceased identity theft are committed by a member of the deceasedís family. It might be a relative who is in financial trouble, a friend who has a costly addiction or a family member that feels they were wronged in the will or estate planning. For that reason, the identifying information of a deceased family member should be kept to as small a circle as possible. It seems to work best when one family member is the point-person for collection of documents, closing of accounts, checking of credit, etc. Generally this is someone other than the person who organizes all of the other events that surround the death of a loved one.

To further bulletproof yourself and your business, visit John's blog at www.Sileo.com. To book John at your next event, visit www.ThinkLikeaSpy.com. John Sileo became America's leading identity theft speaker & expert after he lost his business and more than $300,000 to identity theft and data breach. His clients include the Department of Defense, Pfizer and the FDIC.

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