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Sex Toys for the Bedroom
Here are three sex toys to change things up. Don't worry guys, think of these as tools for the bedroom.





The key to any good play date is bringing a toy you both can play nicely with. The process of picking one, though, can be intimidating. Anyone who’s ever been to a sex shop knows the feeling of standing before the mighty wall o’ dildos; the 200 different shapes, sizes and colors are enough to make you want to forget the whole idea. And online shopping? Forget about it. The wall o’ dildos times a million websites equals one big headache. That’s why we’ve asked sexperts Emma Taylor and Lorelei Sharkey (affectionately known as Em & Lo—the Emily Posts of the modern bedroom) to pick their favorite sex toys from their book Sex Toy: An A to Z Guide to Bedroom Accessories. From Ben Wa balls to boy toys, sex swings to strap-ons, Em & Lo’s Sex Toy has hundreds of toys to satisfy your every need. And like any good friend, they’re sharing the dirt on their three favorite ones.

Elastomer Rabbit Habit by Vibratex
"You've seen it on Sex and the City, but the latest version by Vibratex is even better, because it's made from a phthalate-free elastomer, which means it's safer for your sensitive bits. The Rabbit is a dual-action vibe, meaning it can provide both clitoral and internal stimulation. Many women love the feeling of being filled up and perhaps having their G-spot stimulated while their clitoris is being stimulated on the outside. The entire shaft swirls, the base of the shaft features undulating pearls (to stimulate the vaginal opening, which is the most sensitive part of the vagina), and the rabbit's ears flutter against the clitoris. You can vary both the vibration intensity and swirling speed with the controls. It's a great toy for a woman to use on her own for a little self-love, especially since her partner might feel threatened by all its bells and whistles."

Vibrating love rings
"If you've always felt like a little something was missing during traditional intercourse, try a vibrating love ring—it might give you just the clitoral stimulation you need to reach your happy place. Unlike traditional rings that tend to evoke images of dungeons, the latest love rings are super soft, stretchy and friendly looking. Unfortunately, many are made of stinky, toxic jelly rubber (again with the phthalates!), so we'd go for one made of silicone. This is a great first toy to use together as a couple, especially if the guy is a bit intimidated by the idea of sex toys—there's nothing phallic about it, and he actually gets to wear it, so it's not like he's being replaced by it!"

Vibrators by Lelo
"This high-end sex toy company, based in Sweden, makes several versions of its elfin pebble vibe, which looks like a beautiful and super-smooth piece of sea glass, as well as elegantly designed standard-sized vibrators. Lelos are rechargeable—just plug them in like you would a cell phone. When fully charged, they can go for hours, and they have a long standby time. All Lelo toys come in a gift box with a satin storage pouch, are quieter than a mouse, feature LED indicators and have a one-year warranty. The pebble vibes (like Lily and Nea) are great to use with a partner because they're super quiet (no super-loud buzz to spoil the mood), they look incredibly innocent (no phallic design to intimidate your husband), and they're small enough to fit comfortably between two bodies."

"In the world of sex toys," say Em & Lo, "cheap reproductions are typically a very bad idea." To help your research, all of the above toys can be found at these websites:

http://store.babeland.com
www.goodvibes.com
www.lelo.com


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